The Importance of Awareness of ADHD
ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) in children is not just a diagnosis; it is a difference that makes itself felt in all areas of life and shapes the inner world of the individual and his/her relationships with his/her environment. For me, this difference has been both a struggle and a guiding light since my childhood. Being labelled as someone with a ‘different mind’ or as someone ‘unique’ has built invisible walls between me and those around me for years. However, behind these walls, my journey of self-knowledge and discovering my potential began.
Today, I know how important it is to raise awareness about ADHD in children and to make their lives easier at an early age. In this article, I would like to share some important points based on my own experiences about the difficulties faced by individuals with ADHD and how these difficulties can be overcome.
At what age is ADHD recognised? What are the Early Symptoms?
My journey with ADHD started in childhood. In those years, I had difficulty concentrating, I would sit still in class, but in my head, I was travelling in completely different worlds and I was constantly accused of being ‘interested in other things’. Like most children, the symptoms of ADHD appear at an early age. Difficulty focusing, hyperactivity and difficulties with impulse control are usually recognised in primary school. However, every child is different and some symptoms may be recognised later.
Are ADHD Symptoms Different in Boys and Girls?
Since boys are generally more active, ADHD can be diagnosed earlier. Girls with similar symptoms, on the other hand, are more often labelled as ‘dreamy’ and their diagnosis may be delayed. This difference once again demonstrates the importance of early diagnosis and the right support.
How can we tell the difference between mobility?
It is normal for children to be energetic, but for children with ADHD, this energy can feel like an uncontrollable force. For me, this manifested itself as constantly trying new things, asking a lot of questions to teachers and people around me (my teachers thought that I was asking a lot of questions because I did not understand the lessons) and impulsive behaviour. However, this was often interpreted as ‘carelessness’ or ‘impatience’ by the people around me.
What are the Effects of ADHD on Psychological Development?
ADHD can profoundly affect children’s self-confidence and self-perception. For years, I too felt inadequate. Having difficulty adapting to behaviours that were considered ‘normal’ in my environment led to difficulties in social relationships. However, these difficulties pushed me to think more creatively and solution-oriented. It is possible to reduce the effects of ADHD in children by helping them discover their strengths.
How to Collaborate with Teachers and Schools for ADHD Management in School?
Throughout my education life, the biggest problem I had with my teachers was that I asked more questions in order to understand what they told me instead of memorising it, and that I looked for alternative solutions instead of following the solution path they showed me, behaviours that were seen as ‘not following the rules’. However, children with ADHD need different learning methods. The co-operation of teachers and parents is very important for both the academic and social development of the child.
In this process, if you receive ADHD coaching support from an ADHD Coach, you can both increase your awareness and establish much healthier communication with your child.
What is the Importance of Establishing Routines for Children with ADHD?
Maintaining order in my life has always been difficult. However, routines are a saviour for individuals with ADHD. Creating daily plans and habits for ADHD management in children makes their lives more predictable and reduces anxiety.
How Technology and Screen Time Affect ADHD
Technology and social media can be both advantages and disadvantages. For me, technology can be a distraction, but it has also been a source that fuels my creativity. In the management of ADHD in children, it is important to use screen time in a balanced way in order to prevent the increase in focusing problems.
Things to Consider in the Relationship of Children with ADHD with Their Siblings
The balance within the family is a critical issue for children with ADHD. I know from my own experience that comparisons between siblings can negatively affect self-confidence. It is important for families to be sensitive in this regard and to accept that each child is different in order to develop healthy relationships.
Conclusion: Living with ADHD – The Importance of Patience and Support
ADHD is not an obstacle that makes life difficult; it is an awareness that, when managed correctly, brings out the potential of the individual. My story shows how differences can turn into power when they are accepted. ADHD in children can turn into an advantage in children’s lives when it is recognised early and the right support is provided.
Today, I am determined to use all these awareness and experiences I have gained to illuminate the paths of individuals with differences like me. In this journey, we all have the right to discover that our differences are opportunities, not obstacles.
